Monday 13 April 2020

What makes someone unlikeable

I did some digging to come up with some key behaviors that push people back when it comes to person likability. Make sure cut of any of these behaviors [if any] as soon as possible.

Scientifically proven habits of unlikable people:



1. Forgetting Names 

If you can't remember names of people you meet occasionally then you are at highest risk to fall victim among unlikable people. Instead of making you look cool, it makes people feel as though you don't take them seriously and you never cared about them.

2.Name dropping

 It’s great to know popular and interesting people, but exploiting every conversation as an opportunity to name-drop is flashy and silly.When you connect every topic with who you know [others may don't care about] conversations lose their color.you need to know If a person is talking to you he/she is interested in your stories rather than some one you know right take care of that.


3. Liars 

Nowadays lying is a common feature of social interactions among humans. .Lies often lead to SOME benefit. For example, a person may lie to avoid social embarrassment or you may see some short term benefits . While some people lie more frequently. Pathological lying is different. It may be a sign of an underlying mental health condition, such as a personality disorder.If one of your friend is a lair you will not trust him and definitely going to dislike in long run.If you want a long run relationships avoid lying even if you may have to face hard time afterwards.  




4.Narrow minded people

If you have limited outlook and unwilling to consider alternative ideas, stance or thoughts then you fall under this category.  As you know no one like narrow minded people, so do consider others prospective when it comes group tasks or work. 



5. Attention seekers

Attention seeking behavior is to act in a way that is likely to grab attention, usually to get validation from others.One of common Trait of such people is posting to much on social media. Drama queen may be the word which perfectly defines them.




6. Phone Addicts 

Nothing turns someone off to you like a mid-conversation text message or even a quick glance at your phone, you definitely would have experienced it personally .So When you commit to a conversation, focus all of your energy on the conversation.Pay attention to what you are chitchatting and be an active participant in conversation.



7. Gossiping people behind their back

A friend who passes on the secrets of other friends, but asks you not to tell is a gossip.If someone do so you may think he/she is probably sharing your secrets with other friends. Mature people don't like gossipers.



8. Yelling at people

Yelling is having a detrimental effect on relationships. its known to almost everyone even children know it.




9. Reluctant to go out

If some one likes you and invites you out for any activity and every time what person hears form you is "No" than the time isn't far when all the likability turns to hatred. It doesn't means you cant say no but always responding in such away shows you don't care about them anymore.  




10. Disclosing something extremely personal early on in a relationship.

While getting to know people requires a healthy amount of sharing, sharing too much too early about yourself is surely wrong.So Be careful & avoid sharing personal queries and confessions prematurely . Likable people let the other person guide them as to when it’s the right time for them to open up.

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